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Saint Lucia, We Love!

On the catamaran to Soufriere. The Pitons in the background.
On the catamaran to Soufriere. The Pitons in the background.

“Saint Lucia, We Love!” is the chorus to a catchy dance track by Mongstar. The video, images, and lyrics sum up perfectly how welcoming it is in St. Lucia.

So many people I talk with are afraid to travel. Fear of sickness, crime or worse keeps them home in the good ol’ USA. If that sounds like you, St Lucia is a place where you can relax. The weather is tropical, water is turquoise and the people are friendly, kind and genuine.

Click for YouTube video: After flying into the international airport, we took a helicopter ride to the other end of St. Lucia
Click for quick YouTube Video: After flying into the international airport, we took a quick 12-minute helicopter ride to the other end of St. Lucia.

It’s hard to compare St. Lucia. It’s lush and tropical with gorgeous turquoise water and sandy beaches, including some black sand beaches and the man-made Sugar Beach. Not an exact, but an easy analogy would be saying St Lucia is like Florida, except not flat.

The helicopter pilot claimed there is a marijuana grow in there. Can you see it?
The helicopter pilot claimed there is a marijuana grow in there. Can you see it?
Sulfur Springs in Soufriere. It's called a 'drive thru' volcano. You can't drive up to the volcano any more, but you get pretty close.
Sulfur Springs in Soufriere. It’s called a ‘drive thru’ volcano. You can’t drive up to the volcano any more, but you get pretty close.

If you want some hiking or fishing with your beaches, then St. Lucia is your place.

My Segway tour guide Sammy waxed philosophical as he helped through the bumpy off roads.
My Segway tour guide, Sammy waxed philosophical as he helped through the bumpy off-roads.

The people could not be nicer. Speaking English with a hint of French and British accents, I couldn’t help but think how boring I sounded compared to them. They’re not only warm, accommodating, with great senses of humor, the people of St. Lucia I met were very inviting. They don’t just smile and move onto the next tourist.People working in the St Lucia service/tourist industry engage with you about their country, your country, history, current events, anything. You feel immediately welcome.

Forget Carlos & Charlie’s or Señor Frog’s, The Gros Islet Friday Night Street Party is the real deal. Locals and tourists gather in the area to enjoy food, drink and live music. Front yards transform into lemonade stands for grown ups complete with lights, music, and homemade food. Start time is 9pm, but the party doesn’t really start in earnest until midnight (what good party does?).

For the first half of our visit we stayed at The Landings Resort & Spa. 

Living/dining room plus second bedroom at The Landings.
Living/dining room plus second bedroom at The Landings.
Living room with an enormous veranda at The Landings.
Living room with an enormous veranda at The Landings.
The lobby at The Landings
The lobby at The Landings

Offering 1-4 bedrooms with a kitchen, 2 bathrooms, and massive verandas in the front and back of your condo, The Landings is perfect for gatherings of family and friends.

There are several pools, a marina, beach club, two restaurants and a gorgeous spa, all minutes from Pigeon Island National Park. With everyone under one roof, you can lounge by the pool or the beach while someone else does nature photography or rents a snorkel from the beach club.

From The Landings we literally went next door for a few days at Sandals Grande St Lucian, your quintessential all-inclusive beach resort. You’ve seen the commercials. Sandals knows its guests and has created a very relaxing, fun environment here.

Sandals Grande St Lucian is a large, well appointed property with a large beach area.
Sandals Grande St Lucian is a large, well appointed property with a large beach area.

You want a drink? It’s coming right up. Hungry? There are 9 restaurants on property plus you can almost always grab a burger, hot dog, crepe, pizza or ice cream. The ice cream at Sandals Grande St Lucian is fabulous and also makes tasty milkshakes. I was a little underwhelmed by the desserts, but the ice cream more than made up for it.

Billiards Room at Sandals Grande St Lucian
Billiards Room at Sandals Grande St Lucian

Sandals is a cruise ship that never leaves port: plenty of food, booze, sand, water activities and entertainment. I found this Sandals resort to be pleasantly more relaxed than others. You’re not harassed by staff into a belly flop competition or drinking contest with bad house music blaring everywhere. The music around the main pool was primarily Caribbean with appropriate rock, country and pop hits. While energetic, I could actually hear myself talk. Imagine that.

If you want culture, this is not your property. There a many more authentic and/or boutique places on the island. If you want to relax and not think about anything, Sandals is a fine choice. Keep in mind it’s a couples-only resort. There are a lot of honeymooners, weddings and corporate groups.

My wife and me leaving Soufriére on a catamaran.
My wife and me leaving Soufriére on a catamaran. She is one of the top sellers of St Lucia vacations on the West Coast and North America.

My favorite part of the journey was the catamaran to Soufríere and the Pitons in Southwest St Lucia. You can stay at or near a Unesco World Heritage site.

I’ve seen many hotels and resorts. Ladera Resort is unforgettable. Located between the Pitons on the Unesco World Heritage site, Ladera has no TV in your room. Who needs it? The resort has been built into the hillside with views more stunning than anything on cable. There is high speed internet, so you can humble brag to your friends while relaxing in your private Piton-view pool inside your suite. Shuttles run down to nearby Sugar Beach just below.

Private pool and swing overlooking the Pitons from a suite at Ladera.
Private pool and swing overlooking the Pitons from a suite at Ladera.

We took a five hour flight from Seattle to Miami, then a little less than fours hours from Miami to St Lucia. It takes about 90 minutes to shuttle from the international airport at the south end of the island to The Landings and Sandals Grande (there are 3 Sandals resorts on St Lucia). I was perfectly comfortable during the flights and transfers. Or you can book a seat on the helicopter. It’s slightly more expensive, but it takes 12 minutes and it’s a flight seeing trip.

On the helipad in St Lucia.
On the helipad in St Lucia.

Most any tropical vacation offers sun and sand. St Lucia is filled with friendly people with a passion for life. That passion will compel you to leave your resort and enjoy local food, drink and activities. With very few chain restaurants and stores, it’s less commercialized and more authentic than many tourist destinations. A week in St Lucia was an inspiring way to celebrate my birthday with my wife.

Like the song says, ‘St Lucia, We Love.’

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The Duggars: 19 Excuses and Counting

Megyn Kelly did a respectable job asking questions, IMO.
Megyn Kelly did a respectable job asking questions, IMO.

Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar proved my suspicions about them. Their interview with Megyn Kelly of FOX NEWS, showed no contrition, only a clumsy attempt at preserving their baby-making business.

It’s official: everyone is a victim; nobody apologizes anymore.

I don’t know when it happened, but apologizing became a sign of weakness. When caught doing something against the values you preach, the move is to now blame those who uncovered your transgressions and claim to be the real victim.

Molestation could, in theory, happen across any walk of life. I grew up with good church-going kids and wild church going kids. I’ve seen kids reject their families’ churches. I’ve seen ‘bad’ kids embrace religion. If there is a perfect way to raise a child, I’m not aware of it.

At this point, unless more information comes out, I don’t blame Michelle and Jim Bob very much for not immediately calling the authorities. I’m sure it was very shocking and disappointing to them. I believe them when they say they felt like they failed as parents. There were a lot of issues and emotions to process.

My problem is the cover up. There have been rumors about this for years. That didn’t stop members of the Duggar Family from falling victim to their own celebrity, criticizing others’ lifestyles and morality. Given what they’ve been through, I think they should have struck a much more humble tone pre and post scandal. Pride cometh before a fall.

They were on a verge of an empire: a life of spin-offs for kids and grandkids, high-paying speaking gigs, book deals, maybe a long dress collection on QVC, and political aspirations. The Megyn Kelly interview was Jim Bob and Michelle’s stubborn, defensive attempt to salvage that. They’re Duggars Inc.

They even falsely claimed that releasing the records was illegal. It wasn’t. But the purpose of saying that is to fill social media with that claim, regardless of whether it’s true or not.

The Duggars are just doing what business people do, trying to protect their money. They need to play the victim. They need to cast blame. Because doing the truly Christian thing doesn’t pay nearly as well.

Centralia is #1! What It Needs To Do Better

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If you grew up or live in Centralia, Washington, this was all over your Facebook feed. Homesnacks.com (whatever that is) rated Centralia the “Worst Place to Live in Washington (state)”
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As the former Chamber director, I offer a perspective no one else can. I’m not living there anymore, but I will always care about Centralia and Chehalis. I have no political ramifications to fear. Believe me. That is more important than you could possibly know. Remember when I talked about identifying and protecting your own in my Mike Huckabee/Duggars blog? Lewis County has more competitive groups and passively aggressive waring factions than it has people working together. Which brings me to my first point…

1. Work together. This is easier said than done. When I was there, I tried to build as much consensus as I could. It wasn’t easy. There were literally people I was told not to do business with. It was difficult. I worked around some, but not all of it. The truth is Lewis County, and Centralia, has a well-earned reputation for not cooperating. That needs to change.

2. Quit alienating Olympia. Let me tell you a story. I was at an event at Trans Alta. The governor and many other dignitaries were there. I had to leave early. I noticed Speaker of the House Frank Chopp, the most powerful man in Olympia, was going out to the parking lot. I took the opportunity to reintroduce myself. (I had covered the Capitol as a reporter for KIRO Radio.) It went poorly. I thought I was being pleasant and just making small talk, but he tore into me. I experienced the brunt of the legendary Frank Chopp temper. In my head I literally heard the sound of a plane taking a nose dive. “How the hell did this happen?” I thought as I bowed out of that disaster as gracefully as possible. To his credit, Chopp personally called me and apologized.

with Washington State Speaker of the House Frank Chopp. We got off to a very rocky start. I was hopeful to build a relationship that would benefit Lewis County.
with Washington State Speaker of the House Frank Chopp. We got off to a very rocky start. I was hopeful to build a relationship that would benefit Lewis County.

We have been on good terms ever since. I used the opportunity to bring him down to speak at a Chamber luncheon and meet with him privately on behalf of Lewis County. My point? When, as a county, you receive more tax dollars than you take in, perhaps a little diplomacy is better than being constantly combative. You don’t have to change your political opinions, just be more diplomatic in how you express them.

3. Find a niche. This is a hard one. Many people asked why Centralia doesn’t attract tech like Microsoft. One reason is most MS workers are contractors. A lot of work is done through temporary staffing agencies and you can only work so many months a year because otherwise you would be full-time. My personal opinion is that Centralia might start by trying to attract a call center. It’s not the highest paying job, but it’s a start. Manufacturers are also looking at places like Centralia: low cost of living, easy product distribution, and not a strong chance for unionizing. (It’s true, believe me). Again, while manufacturing isn’t what is was during Detroit’s heyday, it’s something. Right now there isn’t much. As more companies come back to the US for manufacturing, perhaps Centralia might be attractive for its relatively lower start up costs.

4.Some small businesses need to raise their game. Antiques are great. But that market is getting older. Tastes shift. There are no mid-century style stores downtown and that’s very popular. Some stores, honestly, look like swap meets and hurt the curb appeal of those who are putting in the extra effort. Why is McMenamins successful and your store barely makes rent? Your inventory sucks and your front window has no curb appeal. I was sad to see that Up The Creek Antiques left downtown. It looked terrific, but people treated it more like a museum than a store. I know it’s a hard balance.

5.Own Christmas. The Lighted Tractor Parade was a disaster that did a complete 180. I would find money for the biggest downtown light display you can afford. Think big. Cover the downtown business front in lights. Between the parade, the drive through display at Borst Park, and downtown looking amazing, you brand Centralia as a family holiday shopping destination. Shelton used to be Christmas town USA. Own that. Make it your identity. If you build it; they will come.

6. Support Centralia College. Education is more important than ever. Coming from an economically disadvantaged area means many who live there can only afford to attend Centralia College. It’s a great institution for its value. It offers a wide variety of courses and now offers some bachelors programs. Lewis County needs all of the trained people it can retain. An educated workforce is desirable to employers and can only help the community and economy in the future. I know some neighbors are frustrated living so close, and I’m very sorry for them, but sometimes the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few. A more educated population is critical for Centralia and Lewis County’s success.

The Grand Ballroom at Centralia Square.
The Grand Ballroom at Centralia Square. Neil and Jodi White have done an amazing job restoring the old Elk’s Lodge.

7. There is hope. Centralia has some cool, new things happening. To me the most important is the new Industrial Park At TransAlta, or IPAT. The hundreds of family wage jobs at “the steam plant” aren’t coming back, but the IPAT offers hope of new industry coming to Centralia. I can’t think of a better person to manage it than Allyn Roe, the former manager of the Chehalis-Centralia Airport. He’s smart and level headed. I’m also hopeful that Peter Abbarno will bring new life to the city council. He’s an attorney who does his homework. I would go to council meetings in the past and be frustrated that council members then often voted on things based on ideology, rather than reading bills, proposals and other things that crossed their desk. Often times reality and practicality trumps bumper sticker ideology. I hope that the new council does its due diligence. I also love the new Centralia Square. The hotel and ballroom are top notch. Neil and Jodi White and their partners did a tremendous job of revitalizing the old Elk’s Lodge. That building has so much to offer and it was rotting away as simply an antique store. I heard McMenamin’s refers people to that hotel when the hotel at the Oly Club is booked. Working together. Who knew?

These aren’t the only things that can be done. There are probably better ideas out there, either in theory or practice, right now.

Centralia isn’t dramatically different from what’s happening in small towns all across the country. For good or bad, times have changed. More and more people are migrating towards cities because of jobs and services. It’s up to small towns to meet the challenge of offering opportunity and selling quality of life. This is going to take commitment, self sacrifice, and focus on a common goal.

Let’s Get This Out of the Way

My health.

Since 2012, it’s defined me. You work hard. You’re nice to people. You try to make something of your life.  It doesn’t matter. Now I’m the ‘Bubble Boy’.

In Providence St. Peters March 2012
In Providence St. Peters March 2012

I have an autoimmune disease. It used to be called “Wegener’s Vasculitis”. (Wegener was a nazi apparently, thus the name change). It’s now GPA for short. Basically, it attacks white guys in their 40s and 80s. 20 years ago it was a death sentence. There are maybe 500 cases a year. The cause is unknown. I wish I knew. I’d make changes. Lifestyle, genetics, environment, who knows? My immune system attacked my lungs. If you don’t identify it and treat it soon enough, it moves onto the kidneys and a person can end up on dialysis or dead. Many older doctors are amazed I’m still alive. As of right now, it’s in remission. There hasn’t been a trace in my blood in years. I wish the story ended there. It doesn’t.

My lungs March 2012. The white you see is blood filling up my lungs. A normal lung X-ray would be black.
My lungs March 2012. The white you see is blood filling up my lungs. A normal lung X-ray would be black.

It started on Oscar night 2012 (the last time Billy Crystal hosted). I started coughing up blood. After going to a clinic thinking I just needed antibiotics, I spent the night in a local hospital, then was whisked by ambulance to the rheumatologists at Providence St. Peter in Olympia. The hospital where I was born was almost the hospital where I died.

In April and March of 2012, I spent 30 days in the hospital, most of it in ICU. I couldn’t be stabilized for a biopsy. When I was finally strong enough, I went into a simple lung biopsy with the knowledge that I might not make it. I almost didn’t. Being intubated for just a few hours stretched into 9 days. Thanks to a team of doctors and nurses and my wife, I pulled through. One doctor said, “You never crashed, but you were clipping the tops of trees.”

Out of the hospital and ready to get back to my life, I started a regimen of Cytoxan, a chemotherapy infusion. The GPA quickly went into remission and I thought that would be the end of my health scares for another 20 years. That’s actually where the problems started. The drugs suppressed my immune system and opened the door for an unwanted guest.

Aspergillis, a common fungus in the air, lodged in my spinal cord in my neck at C4.
Aspergillis, a common fungus in the air, lodged in my spinal cord in my neck at C4.

Sometime, somewhere I inhaled a fungus and it stuck. It stuck in my neck and my brain. While your immune system can fight off all kinds of things in the air, I couldn’t. As one doctor put it, “It’s the drugs, man.”

Brain MRI 2012. You can see two lesions on the right front and back lobes. The frontal fungus disappeared with medication. The larger lesion didn't.
Brain MRI 2012. You can see two lesions on the right front and back lobes. The frontal fungus disappeared with medication. The larger lesion didn’t.
Aspergillis in the bottom right lobe of my brain. 2013.
Aspergillis in the bottom right lobe of my brain. 2013.

At first doctors didn’t think it would be an issue, just take some anti fungal meds and the lesions would be gone in 9 to 12 months. They were wrong. The fungus caused a relapse in the GPA and sent me back to the ICU in late April. I spent 60 days in the hospital this time, 13 days intubated. The Tuesday after Memorial Day, doctors told my wife to prepare for the worst. I wasn’t going to make it.

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A never-before-seen photo of me intubated in March 2012.

Days later, I finally woke up under a completely different set of circumstances: I couldn’t walk or talk. The lesion in my neck paralyzed my entire left side, even my face was drooping. Because I was intubated for so long, my throat was trached and I couldn’t talk. But I was happy to be alive.

The next 40 days in the hospital were hell. I had to learn how to walk, talk, eat, breathe, pretty much everything all over again. I had no strength, stamina, or lung capacity, yet I had to come back from three near death experiences. It was the biggest challenge of my life, but all of my tools had been stripped from me. I was frustrated, humiliated, and grateful all at once. This is just an overview of my diagnosis and struggles, I’ll share more stories in later blogs. While I posted everything about my journey in social media, it’s so complicated, most people still don’t understand what happened. Just know that doctors didn’t expect me to walk or use my left arm again. I beat their predictions and I beat death. The score is still Jim: 4 Death: 0